A parenting arrangement is built around your child’s best interests, including their need to maintain meaningful relationships with both parents. A move can dramatically change that balance. According to Family Law principles, time arrangements depend on the child’s needs, best interests and practical considerations such as distance between homes and school commitments. Relocation often qualifies as a “significant change in circumstances,” allowing parenting orders to be varied if necessary. Whether you’re moving within Victoria, interstate or overseas, the legal implications can be complex.

Get Consent or Seek a Court Order

You must obtain the other parent’s written consent before relocating your child. If you cannot agree, you will need to apply to the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia for permission. If you already have a parenting order giving you sole decision-making responsibility for long-term issues, relocation may still require the court’s permission if the order does not cover such a move. The court will consider the proposed move and the existing parenting orders to decide what arrangement best promotes your child’s welfare. Moving without consent can result in serious legal consequences, including orders for the child’s return and penalties for breaching court orders.

Best Interests of the Child

When deciding relocation cases, courts weigh factors such as:

• The child’s age, developmental needs and relationship with each parent.
• Each parent’s ability to meet the child’s needs and facilitate long‑distance contact.
• Reasons for the move (employment, family support, safety) and practicality of maintaining a relationship with the non‑moving parent.
• Impact on schooling, extracurricular activities and community ties.
• Any history of family violence or risk of harm.

No single factor determines the outcome; the overarching question is what arrangement serves the child’s best interests.

Variation of Parenting Orders

If a relocation changes the viability of existing parenting arrangements, you may need to vary orders or create a new parenting plan. Courts allow modifications when there is a significant change in circumstances, such as relocation, safety concerns or changes in a child’s needs. Negotiation and mediation are often encouraged before commencing court proceedings. Updating orders ensures they remain practical and enforceable.

International Relocation and Overseas Travel

If you’re planning to move overseas with your child, additional legal requirements apply.

You must obtain written consent from the other parent or a court order before taking your child out of Australia — even for a short-term relocation or extended travel.

Without this consent, removing a child from Australia may breach the Family Law Act 1975 and, in some cases, constitute a criminal offence. The Court can make orders for the child’s return if they are taken overseas without permission.

When assessing international relocation cases, the Court considers:

• The practical ability for the child to maintain a meaningful relationship with both parents.
• The reasons for the move, including employment, safety or family support.
• How travel, communication and costs will be managed to preserve the child’s connection with the non-moving parent.

If you’re considering an overseas move, it’s crucial to seek early legal advice to understand your options, prepare necessary evidence, and avoid potential legal consequences.

Communication and Technology

Long‑distance parenting requires creativity to keep relationships strong. Video calls, messaging apps and regular phone contact help children feel connected to the non‑relocating parent. Including specific provisions for virtual contact in your parenting plan ensures expectations are clear.

Travel Arrangements and Costs

Practical planning is vital. Consider who will bear travel expenses, how holidays will be shared and how often in‑person visits will occur. Some parents alternate holidays, while others plan extended visits during school breaks. Clear guidelines prevent misunderstandings and reduce conflict.

Supporting Children Through Change

Relocation can be stressful for children. Explain the move in age‑appropriate language and reassure them that they will continue to see both parents. Maintain familiar routines where possible and involve them in planning new activities and friendships. A child psychologist or counsellor can help children process their feelings and adjust to the new arrangement.

Step‑by‑Step Guide for Parents Considering a Move

1. Seek Legal Advice Early. Before committing to a move, speak with a family lawyer about relocation and long‑distance parenting in Victoria. Understand your obligations, the likelihood of obtaining consent and alternatives if your former partner refuses.
2. Discuss With the Other Parent. Present clear reasons for the move and propose a revised parenting arrangement. Provide details about schooling, accommodation and how you will support the child’s relationship with their other parent.
3. Attempt Mediation. Mediation can help parents reach a compromise without court intervention. Even if agreement isn’t reached, mediation may clarify issues and narrow points of dispute.
4. File an Application if Necessary. If no agreement is possible, file an application with the court. Be prepared to show that the move is in your child’s best interests and that you will facilitate ongoing contact with the other parent.
5. Implement and Monitor the New Arrangement. Once new orders or agreements are in place, follow them closely. Adjust if circumstances change and maintain open communication about your child’s wellbeing.